What Is Chemsex Addiction? Learn About The Dangers

Sex is a natural and healthy part of life, but it can become risky when combined with drug use. “Chemsex” is a documentary that highlights the dark side of an underground, drug-fueled gay sex scene that is causing harm to many people. You can learn more about its dangers and treatment options in this article.

DISCLAIMER: The documentary, ‘Chemsex,’ shows graphic scenes of drug use. It is not recommended that it be watched by those in addiction recovery who may be triggered by these events.

What is Chemsex?

Sex is a natural and healthy part of life, but when it becomes intertwined with drug use, things can take a dangerous turn.

Chemsex, also known as party and play (PnP), refers to the intentional use of drugs such as methamphetamine, GHB, GBL, and mephedrone to enhance sexual experiences. It is most commonly associated with the LGBTQ+ community, particularly among gay and bisexual men, although it can occur in any demographic. It often leads to prolonged sex sessions that can last for hours or even days. While it might sound like a harmless or even thrilling concept to some, chemsex addiction carries significant risks, both physically and mentally.

In 2022, The Cabin addressed “slamming”, also known as chemsex, in a previous article. Estimates suggest that 1 in 8 gay or bisexual men in London alone are living with HIV, and chemsex is believed to be a significant contributor. A powerful documentary by VICE, released in December 2015, featured men from the UK sharing their harrowing experiences with chemsex. The documentary shed light on the immense dangers and health risks associated with this lifestyle.

Chemsex parties often create a risky environment. Participants are often encouraged to leave their condoms at home, significantly increasing the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like Hepatitis and HIV. Sharing needles used to inject drugs further amplifies this danger. Sadly, rates of these STIs are rising rapidly within London’s gay community, particularly among those involved in chemsex.

Why Is Chemsex So Alluring For Gay Men?

Many gay men in London and the UK use dating apps such as Grindr and other online sex websites to search for hookups or one-night stands, often leading to invitations to chemsex parties. Despite the high risk of contracting diseases through unsafe sex, these parties are attracting a growing number of gay men in London.

David Stuart, a sexual health worker at 56 Dean Street, a London outpatient clinic that handles many chemsex cases, provides insight into the phenomenon. He suggests that the urge to attend chemsex parties and use the drugs involved arises from a longing for intimacy among gay men who grew up having to conceal their identities, making intimacy challenging.

“Intimacy is a skill we learn as children in an ideal family unit. Many gay men we see at this clinic didn’t experience that. They were always performing, being overly straight, and overly cautious in keeping their secret. That’s the opposite of intimacy. Then suddenly, they’re adults in a hyper-sexualised gay world with an app on their phone that facilitates very fast sex among a population more prone to HIV and hepatitis C, and they’re trying to incorporate intimacy into their lives without a frame of reference,” Stuart explained in an article with The Guardian.

Stuart also notes that the drugs used in these parties help users feel less isolated, breaking down their defences and enabling them to communicate and act freely in ways they never could when sober.

Popular Drugs Used in Chemsex Parties

Several drugs are commonly used in chemsex parties, each with specific effects that make them appealing for sexual enhancement. These include:

1. Methamphetamine (Meth): Often referred to as crystal meth, this powerful stimulant increases energy, alertness, and sexual arousal. It is one of the most popular drugs in chemsex due to its ability to prolong sexual activity and enhance pleasure.
2. GHB/GBL: Gamma-hydroxybutyrate (GHB) and gamma-butyrolactone (GBL) are central nervous system depressants. They can induce feelings of euphoria and relaxation, lowering inhibitions and enhancing sexual pleasure.
3. Mephedrone: Also known as “meow meow” or “bath salts,” mephedrone is a stimulant that increases energy and arousal, similar to methamphetamine, but with a shorter duration.
4. Ketamine: This dissociative anaesthetic can create a sense of detachment from reality, making users feel relaxed and euphoric, although it can also lead to a “k-hole” – a state of intense dissociation that can be frightening.

How Does Chemsex Addiction Develop?

There can be various reasons someone might develop a chemsex addiction. Some people use drugs to overcome social anxieties or low self-esteem they might experience during sex. Others might be seeking a more intense or adventurous sexual experience.

However, the initial experimentation can quickly evolve into addiction. Drugs like meth alter brain chemistry, creating a craving for their effects. People may find it increasingly difficult to enjoy sex without the drug, leading them to use more and more to achieve the desired outcome. This cycle of dependence creates a strong addiction that can be extremely difficult to break on your own.

The Dangers of Chemsex

Chemsex poses a serious threat to your physical and mental well-being. Here’s why:

• Increased Risk of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Disinhibited behaviour and unsafe sexual practices during chemsex sessions significantly increase the risk of contracting HIV, Hepatitis C, and other STIs.
• Overdose and Medical Complications: High doses of drugs used in chemsex can lead to overdoses, heart problems, respiratory issues, and even death.
• Mental Health Issues: Chemsex addiction can contribute to anxiety, depression, and paranoia, further impacting your overall well-being.
• Social and Legal Problems: Chemsex can lead to legal issues related to drug possession and use, as well as social problems, including the breakdown of relationships and loss of employment.

Treatment for Chemsex Addiction

Overcoming chemsex addiction is challenging but possible with the right support and treatment. Treatment programmes incorporate various evidence-based therapies, including:

1. Detoxification: The first step is to detox from the drugs safely. This should be done under medical supervision to manage withdrawal symptoms and ensure the individual’s safety.
2. Therapy and Counselling: Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and other counselling methods are crucial in addressing the underlying issues that contribute to chemsex addiction. Therapy helps individuals develop coping strategies, rebuild their self-esteem, and address any co-occurring mental health conditions.
3. Support Groups: Joining support groups provides a community of individuals who understand the challenges of chemsex addiction. These groups offer encouragement, advice, and a sense of belonging.
4. Rehabilitation Programmes: Comprehensive rehabilitation programmes offer a structured environment where individuals can focus on recovery. These programmes often include a combination of detox, therapy, and aftercare planning to support long-term recovery.

Find Hope At The Cabin Chiang Mai

Chemsex, while often glamorised for its ability to enhance sexual pleasure, carries significant risks and can lead to addiction. Understanding these dangers and recognising the signs of addiction are crucial steps in seeking help. If you or someone you know is struggling, consider contacting The Cabin Chiang Mai for support.

Recovery is possible, and taking the first step towards it can lead to a healthier, more fulfilling life. Contact us today for a consultation.